Well first, let me apologize for the bossy title.
I’m not normally so forceful, it’s just that I happen to have encountered a lot of moms lately who are dealing with burn-out.
Like, drag-me-up-off-the-floor-to-make-a-quesadilla level of burn-out and exhaustion.
I think a lot of things can cause us to burn out, and right now, I think a lot of us are still coping with pandemic exhaustion.
Yesterday I was talking with some friends and we decided that the pandemic has made everything at least 15 percent harder.
Everything.
Some things are even harder than that.
- My son opening a bank account – at least 40 percent harder than it used to be.
- Our family just bought a car – minimum 50 percent harder than it was two years ago when we bought a car.
And this applies to everything right now.
Enough
Yesterday on the way to physical therapy, I realized I forgot a mask, which is still required at the clinic. I found one ON THE FLOOR OF MY CAR, picked it up, inspected it, and put it on my face.
Near my mouth.
Where the food goes.
(Speaking of food – food is just always hard. Forever. Send Doordash.)
So if you are like me, you are always looking for ways to make things a bit easier.
That’s where this post comes in.
And my bossy tone.
Giving up?
Because none of us feels like it’s OK to give up, right?
Our culture tells us moms are supposed to work hard, be exhausted, surrender to the messy house and messy bun, and then start drinking wine at 4 p.m.
Yikes. (Yikes about the wine being the answer – I have proudly rocked a messy bun pretty much every day of my life since college).
We’re constantly told that to BE ENOUGH, we have to DO “ENOUGH.”
Now, I wrote a whole book about how this is not true, but still, I get haunted by the lies. They sneak up on me like ninjas whispering: “your bathroom sink is gross right now, you are a Complete Failure As a Human Being.”
Doing less in your homeschool
A while back, I sent out an email to my blog friends (you guys!) asking about your Number 1 struggle with homeschooling.
It was kind of incredible – the answers varied, but many, many of them said the same thing: being consistent.
Now I’m not saying I have all the answers, but I definitely think I have an answer to this:
Do Less.
Doing less it just easier than doing more. It’s a lower barrier to entry. It’s attainable and therefore less intimidating to start.
I know – we think homeschooling isn’t supposed to be easy, because then we aren’t “doing enough“.
But I promise you, that isn’t the case.
And if trying to do it all is causing you to feel exhausted and burned out, you’re kind of shooting yourself in the foot, friend.
Simplified homeschooling
The past several weeks, my daughter and I have been doing a pared down, simplified version of homeschooling.
And amazingly, we’ve been really consistent about it.
Here’s the thing: Less is more when you do it more often.
And you know how I know it’s enough?
Every day Almost every day, we get through everything we set out to do.
Is it perfect? No.
Is it fancy? No
Is it infinitely Instgrammable? Gosh no.
Do those things really matter?
Hell to the No.
A mindset shift
So as you plan our your days and weeks, I have a few resources for you to simplify things:
- Cactus Schooling – my gentle approach to homeschool planning.
Sending virtual hugs friends, and a reminder that you don’t have to do it all to homeschool really well.
I promise. 💙
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